SPREAD THE WORD
RAYMOND BEYDA'S
MONDAY NIGHT CLASS
RESUMES TONIGHT OCTOBER 15
SHAARE ZION TERRACE ROOM 
8:45 PM
MEN AND WOMEN INVITED

 

Insults! They really get to you, don’t they? Most of us get quite emotional when we are on the receiving end of one. But rather than reacting in a negative manner when affronted, try working on yourself to see things objectively. Leave your ego out of it.

It is easy to be objective about others and to understand why they should not get excited about a barb. (“So what if someone said that about you?” you may coolly ask.) Next time you are the victim, treat the insult as if it were directed at someone else. I know it’s difficult, but it is achievable.

It might be easier to avoid reacting emotionally if you could focus on what is really happening and put the whole scene in perspective. Look at the person saying those nasty things about you. If that individual is a fool, you can confidently ignore the hurtful comments. And if the person is wise, or someone whose opinion you generally respect, just say thanks for pointing out an opportunity to improve yourself. Focus on the real situation, and don’t react emotionally.

Try it. It is a trick that can add years to your new, calm life.

CONSIDER THIS FOR A MINUTE

One who works his land will be satisfied with bread; and the one who befriends the lazy will become hungry and bored. (Mishle 12:11)