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Minute 929 //frustration

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           It was not until his problem was solved (by someone else) and his new compact disc player was working again, that Joseph realized his mistake.


Not that he didn’t try. As soon as the player stopped working, he went to the nearby variety store and purchased a package of replacement batteries. In fact, he took the player along with him to show the clerk, just to be certain he would buy the right size batteries. It was not until he got home and put the new power supply in his CD unit that his frustration began.


Joseph put the batteries in their slot. He turned the machine on—and nothing happened. He thought that perhaps the battery-compartment cover had something to do with the problem, and so he calmly reinserted the snap-in plastic piece. Still no go. Removing everything, he took two new batteries from the eight-pack he had just purchased and repeated the process. Still nothing. The third time that he attempted to get the machine to work he licked the battery tips—mimicking a technique he had seen his brother David use when his CD player’s power was not functioning. Sorry, Joe—still not right.

By the time he had been through the eight-pack and was on his way back to the variety store for a refund, Joseph was fuming. As he rushed toward the confrontation, he angrily rehearsed the horrible things he was going to tell the clerk. He even brought the CD player with him to prove the batteries were defective.

The clerk calmly took two batteries from the bag and asked Joseph to put them in the machine.


“You see! They don’t work!” declared Joseph proudly as he pressed the play button several times.


“Give me the player,” the clerk responded patiently.


He removed the batteries from the machine and reversed the way that Joseph had inserted them into the battery compartment. Then he pressed play, and voilà! The music began to play.


“You had the batteries in upside down,” the clerk said. “You became angry because you kept repeating your mistake. The more you do what you’re doing, the more you will get the same result. When something doesn’t work, try again—but do it a little differently until you discover and eliminate your error.”


He may have been a simple clerk in a neighborhood variety store, but his common-sense tip was full of wisdom. People get frustrated when they don’t change the way they operate. In order to succeed, individuals must eliminate procedures that fail to produce positive results.


If you fail to change, you plan to fail. A mistake is fine, so long as you don’t repeat it. The child of repetition is frustration.


 


CONSIDER THIS FOR A MINUTE


In view of the abundance of benefits that miraculously surround us by the grace of Hashem, why do we tend to view them as insignificant and take them for granted? (Rabbi Alexander Aryeh Mandelbaum, Simcha, the Spark of Life, Feldheim Publishers)




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