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Minute 973 // I Don't Know

 


Many situations can render people speechless. A confrontation with an important person, a frightening situation, or a set of unexpected circumstances can leave even individuals who are otherwise very talkative, dumbfounded.


Three of the hardest words for people to get out of their mouths are “I don’t know.” Many people feel that they must know everything about everything and give some answer—any answer, even an incorrect one—in order to avoid being classified as stupid by their friends and associates.


The urge to respond in order to cover ignorance can send people miles out of their way with incorrect travel directions. It can, unfortunately, even result in serious health complications when the perpetrator is a doctor who doesn’t know something but gives an answer anyway to an unsuspecting patient.


Our Sages teach that you should train your tongue to say, “I don’t know.” It prevents you from placing “a stumbling block before the blind.” It also gives you the opportunity to learn and grow if you are one of those courageous souls who can admit to a lack of understanding.


When asked for information that you might not have, gather the courage to admit ignorance. Push the words past your lips: “I don’t know.” It’s not so hard. After doing it a few times, it will become easier. As a bonus, you will start to accumulate a vast array of data from others that will turn you into someone who is “in the know!”


 


CONSIDER THIS FOR A MINUTE


It is an elementary principle and foundation of education to teach each child at his level of capability. As Rambam states (Hilchot Chametz u’Matzah, chapter 7): “In the mitzvah of ‘tell it to your son’ it is a mitzvah to tell your son even if he does not ask. Each father must teach his children to the best of his and their abilities.(Rabbi Shemuel Pinchasi, Imrei Shefer, volume 1, Parashat Bo)



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